FAQs about adoption

I want to adopt a child as young as possible. What are my chances of being matched with a baby?

Most children adopted from public care have been through court proceedings. To make sure that adoption is the right decision and that parents have had a fair hearing can take several months. There are very few children under one year old available for domestic adoption. The average age of adopted children in England and Wales in the year ending March 31, 2010 was three years, nine months. Only two per cent (70) of the adopted children were under one year old.

Can I adopt a child with a different ethnic background from my own?

Recognising the increasing diversity of the UK population we try to match children to be a good 'fit' with their adoptive family. You don't have to share the same ethnic or cultural background; however, adopted people need to balance two identities during their life so adoptive families need to demonstrate their ability to promote positively their child’s birth heritage, including any religious background.

How long does it take to adopt?

We aim to present your application to the adoption panel for approval within eight months of receiving your signed application form. We often take less time than this. The assessment may take longer for some applicants who have very complicated backgrounds or if unforeseen events arise during the assessment. In these instances we may ask you to take a break from the assessment to help to resolve the issues.

Do I have to live in Kensington and Chelsea?

We generally accept applications from people who live approximately an hour’s travelling away but we make exceptions for people that can meet the needs of children who may wait longer for an adoptive family; for example sibling groups from all backgrounds, children with disabilities and children over four years old.

Do adopted children have contact with their birth relatives?

Yes. Children may keep in touch with their birth family through a mediated letter box service – their adopters exchange letters and card with the birth family, usually once or twice a year. Some children also see their birth relatives. This is with their adopters’ agreement and the Royal Borough is always there always to support direct contact arrangements.