Children playingFostering FAQs

Your questions answered


Do I need to have children of my own? 

No, but we will look at your previous experience of looking after children or working with children.

We will assess your parenting skills as part of the application process. We expect you to have some experience of caring for children and a good understanding of the energy and commitment you need to look after a child or young person.   

If you do have children, they will play an important role in making your foster child feel at home.

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Do I have to be married or be with a partner to be a foster carer?
 

No, you can foster whether you are sigle, married, living with a partner, whether you are heterosexual, gay or lesbian.

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Do I have to live in Hammersmith & Fulham, Kensington and Chelsea or Westminster?  

No, you don’t have to live in one of the above boroughs but you do need to live within the Greater London area and have good transport links to the area. Most of the children you will be fostering will be at school in one of the three boroughs, and you will have to attend regular meetings and training at our offices.  

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Can I work and be a foster carer?

Yes, however this will depend on the age of the child you wish to foster. You need to be a full-time carer for children aged birth to five. If you are working you can only foster children of school age. We would need to consider what arrangements you have for school holidays and taking the child to and from school.

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Will I be paid?

You will be given a professional fostering fee and an allowance for your foster child's care, when a child is in placement. Please see “finance sections” (ICON: to finance section)

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Do I have to have training before I can look after a child? 

Yes. You will have to attend a 3 day preparation training before you can be approved to foster a child. If you are making a joint application with a partner both of you need to attend the training.

You will be provided with ongoing training once approved. You will also be given the opportunity to work towards a Diploma in Caring for Children and Young People.

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Can a child share a bedroom?

Ideally every foster child would have their own room, but we recognise that this is not always possible. We do, however, have the following rules about children sharing rooms:

  • birth - two years old can sleep in the carer’s room in a cot
  • no sharing with foster carer’s own children
  • two to eight years old of either gender can share if they are siblings
  • nine to 13 years old can share if they are siblings of the same gender
  • if bunk beds are involved, under fives are on the lower bunk only. Bunk beds are unsuitable for 14-plus years old
  • 14 plus years old must have their own room.

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Can I foster if I’m already a childminder?

Yes, you can. However this depends on the age of the child you wish to foster and your Ofsted approval.

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Can I foster for more than one borough?

No, you can only be an approved foster carer for one Fostering Agency at any one time. However Hammersmith & Fulham, Kensington and Chelsea and Westminster joined their Fostering and Adoption Service. Your approval will be with Kensington and Chelsea, however you will have children placed with you from three different boroughs.

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Do I have to take a child to school?

Yes you do have to be able to take a child to school, or make arrangements within your own support network for someone to take the child to school. This person would need to have a Criminal Records Bureau Check and be interviewed.

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Can the child change schools and go to one closer to where I live?

Stability for foster children is very important so we try to avoid them having to change schools. However, on occasions, and if the child’s needs allow, children can change school.

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What is permanent fostering? 

Some children may need to be looked after permanently without being legally adopted.

This may be because they are unable to live with their birth family for practical reasons but wish to remain in close contact with their parents. In this case we would look for permanent foster care.

This may not suit people looking to build a family through adoption. But it may be right for you if your own children have grown up and left home. 

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What sort of checks are carried out on me and my home?

We will carry out a criminal records check as well as checks with the social services department, the health service, the education department and a register which lists those prevented from working with children. We will also need to carry out a standard safety check on your home. Additionally we ask for referees and an employment reference.

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Would previous convictions prevent someone from fostering?

A previous criminal conviction does not necessarily disqualify you from fostering; it will depend upon the nature of your conviction and when it occurred. This information will remain confidential at all times.

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Can I choose which age group or gender I would prefer to foster?

Yes, you can. However, if you are relying on income from fostering, you are far more likely to have continuous placements if you are willing to take teenagers as well as younger children, and if you will accept children of both genders

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How much will I know about the child/young person before they are placed with me?

We will provide you with as much information about the young person and their background as possible, before you decide whether to accept the placement. However some children are placed in an emergency. In those cases we might not have much information about the young person prior to placement. We expect our foster carers to be flexible in those situations.

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Will fostering affect my benefits?

Any payments you receive from fostering are disregarded for benefits purposes but full details are in the Fostering Network leaflet “Signposts in Fostering- Benefits”

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Could I foster if I have a disability or long term health problems?

We do welcome applications from people with disabilities and health problems. However we do need you to undergo a medical check from your GP. This will help our medical adviser decide whether your health or disability would prevent you from being fit enough to foster.

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I am interested in fostering, how do I find out more?

Call us on Freephone 0800 169 3497 or email us fostering@rbkc.gov.uk

If you are interested in fostering we will take details from you and if we feel we should proceed your interest, we would  arrange for a social worker to visit you at home.

This is the first stage of the assessment process and gives you the opportunity to talk to us about what is involved. It also gives us a chance to find out more about what you can offer a child or young person. 

The whole process, from when you first contact us, to being approved to foster a child, usually takes about six months.

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