Stress happens! We all feel stressed some of the time and it may not be a problem at all. A bit of stress may even help us perform better.

But when you get a lot of stressful things all happening at the same time in your life the effects can be a lot harder to manage.

Stress can affect you physically, making you feel tired, go off your food and mess up your sleep. You may even get stomach aches or headaches.

Stress can affect you mentally too. It’s harder to keep your mind on your learning or work and harder to think things through and solve problems.

We all react to stress in different ways, but understanding and support from other people makes can make it much easier to cope with. If it goes on and on you might even get depressed. It’s more difficult to cope with frustration and control your temper.

Getting help

You might want to talk to:

  • parents, a family member or friend
  • people you know who are coping well with or who have come through a similar situation
  • a school nurse, teacher or school counsellor
  • a social worker or youth counsellor
  • a priest, or someone from your church or temple
  • Samaritans
  • your family doctor or practice nurse